The answer to this question depends upon whether you have installed a recovery strategy for them.
A recovery strategy is a state chain: Problem State -> intermediary state(s) -> resourceful state.
A great example of a recovery strategy was demonstrated by John Overdurf recently on the superb Master Practitioner course he ran. John was working with a student (let's call her Bella) who had a fear of public speaking. John dealt with the issue and then installed a recovery strategy...
...and when you feel that lack of confidence [firing off an anchor he had installed earlier...Bella smiles]...and you know what happens next [firing off another anchor...Bella laughs]...
John repeated this pattern a number of times, installing the state chain uncertainty->smile->laugh etc etc.
Ask Bella what happens if she feels uncertainty or lack of confidence now. Go on, I dare you.
Shawn Carson
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